Monday, July 11, 2011

Hybridizing advice by Bob Faulkner

Bob Faulkner
Dayton, Ohio

    Do I hear a "Tut-Tut?"

    It's interesting how many well intentioned folks  will tell you how to
hybridize. Even at the beginning these folks were  plentiful.  The first
three years of hybridizing I listened politely  and obediently to every word.

    After all, if you don't know, you appreciate  someone telling you.

    So I did all the "you shoulds" I could, and I  avoided all the "you
shouldn'ts" I could. By the fourth year I should have been  a star.

    By the fourth year I realized that my obedience  to all the
'instructions' were leading me directly and in full force down  the path to the Kingdom
of Boring.!!!!!

    So on the fourth year I let my friend 'Mr.  Instinct' and his partner
'Gut Feeling' take over the breeding program.

    Those guys are so smart and helpful.  We don't  like to trust them
because doing so means I have to take chances. 

    Following safe instructions is like dancing on a  sheet with the
footprints on it.  You do it just right, you never look  silly, but the results
are predictable, disappointing and nobody wants to see  it.

    The best dancers learn all the steps, then they add  themselves to the
mix, they add heart, and the results can be pure magic.

    If we don't add ourselves to our hybridizing, if we  don't add our
heart, we are sure to miss much of the magic.

    But there are some rules that should be understood,  I will list some
of them.

    1. Plant your seeds face up.

    2. prayer helps.

    3. watering is more beneficial that  fertilizing.

    4. In order to know if your daylily is special, it  helps to have seen
a lot of other folks' work first.  Don't get stuck in  your own yard, it
will keep you from being selective enough.

    5. Never steal pollen.  Matter of fact, never  steal anything.

    6. visualize what you want to get, often. Even  draw it on paper.

    7. You can ask what people think of your work, but  honestly, 95% of us
will say your flowers are beautiful.  Don't trust  us.  Use your own
judgement.

    8. Share your work.  I believe we aren't given  these beautiful things
just to hoard them.

    9. There can be this tendency to want people to pat  you on the back
all the time. Avoid this tendency like a hoard of locusts.   Those who have
reason to brag never need to.

    10. If you want good feedback, brag on others'  work, a lot; and mean
it.  You will be surprised what the results will  bring you.

    11. Don't tell others what to do, unless they  ask.

    12. Ignore rule #1.

    To hybridize can be wonderfully rewarding.   But if Norman Rockwell
tried to paint like Picasso the Saturday Evening Posts  would have been much
less. 

    The daylily world doesn't need your version of  "someone else."  It
needs you. "Someone else" has already  been taken.